and there...
ladies and gentlemen...
is LIE #1!
Fascinating right? HAHA.
Anyway, moving on... after that I was like, extremely paranoid! (Please refer to my previous posts of paranoia. Erf.) I mean, he's not even fuckin' making paramdam! And you know what the excuse is... *drumroll*... 'wala daw load'. Walang load tapos nakakagimik. Walang load tas sa iba nakakatawag sya sakin hindi. Ano ba naman yan... Tsk Tsk... Katarantaduhan nga naman talaga oh..
Then... he totally changed. TOTALLY. Its as if I dont know him anymore. Then... *tententen*. Kaboom. A friend informed me about the 'EX' incident. You know.... him.. liking his ex again... ex is making paramdam... and other shit like that. (Again, please refer to my previous posts). I think this is the source of our problem... why we ended like this. Kasi, kung nuon pa man naayos na namin 'to... hindi na sana lumaki pa. Pero, fudge. OO. Nagusap nga kami regarding THAT incident.... so.. ok... ayun... ganito-ganyan.... Pero wala paring pagbabago eh. I was hoping na sana he'll be more closer to me, but the opposite happened. "Don't worry. Everything will be ok in the long run. In the short run, we'll face these difficulties." "Ngayon lang 'to mahirap. Pero everything will be ok when this is over, pag ok na ako ulit. I PROMISE." "Everything will be ok in the long run. Bibisitahin kita lagi." (he means at school.) LIES... LIES... LIES. He told those bullshitte to me when he was moving to his condo somewhere in Manila. Erf. Then.. fast forward... after the cool off and that away-bati-away-bati episode, KABOOM. The break up. Evening of July 4, 2005. I thought everything was going well when we had a conversation. I thought we can finally be ok. But.... *TENEN!* the opposite, once again, happened. HIM: "Tell me... kung pano ako makakabawi sayo..." ME: "I wanna see you." HIM: "...And i want to end this." ME: "End what?! *preparing self for the worse*...." HIM: "You.. Me... Us... This...." Ayun. It went kaboom. Bat pa nya ako pinahold on kung bibitaw rin pala sya? --I called him up June 8... I was supposed to break up with him. But he told me "Please... hold on... sa una lang talaga tayo mahihirapan... blah blah blah... " and all that shit. So, ok. I decided to give him a chance. I expected change. But... Nada. Nothing. Iie. Wala. I knew it was coming. But, I never expected it to happen so fast. He did visit though. July 5. I can't talk to him decently. Its like seeing him kills me. Since I can't have a decent conversation with him, he just called me that night. He told me that he broke up with me not because he doesn't love me anymore, but because he has to put his studies first. BAKIT? HINDI BA NYA KAYANG IACCOMPLISH UN NA KASAMA AKO SA BUHAY NYA?! DIBA KUNG MAHAL NYA TALAGA AKO HINDI NYA DAPAT AKO INIWAN! KAHIT ANO PA MANG KALECHEHAN ANG DUMATING SA BUHAY NYA! Pero hindi eh.... He told me that when things are... once again... 'OK', he'll come back to me. Pffft. Ayoko nang umasa. Masakit umasa. Lalo na kung umaasa ka sa wala. But, I don't know. Every night, I always pray to God to help me. He made me realize something though. That maybe, just maybe, HE really isn't HIM. Gets? He isn't really all that. He's not the only guy in this world. --HAHA. that is sooo cliche-ic. The relationship has been wrong starting from the beginning. It just went from 'bad' to 'worst'. "It hurts so much, it doesn't hurt anymore" --Luigi Alfonso I won't deny the fact that I STILL DO LOVE HIM. Yes. Call me stupid, call me brainless or whatever word you can associate with the tagalog term 'TANGA'. But I will not deny the fact that I still LOVE him despite of everything he has done to me. I am proud to say that I have finally accepted the fact na 'Wala na talaga kami'. But... something is holding me back from totally letting go. Its as if a small part of me is still, actually hoping that he'd come back. I do not regret anything. I have been happy. Sabi nga ni Mammi Flo eh, "Why regret having a chunk of happiness in your life?". Besides, regrets wont help me. Even blogging about all this shit won't bring him back to me.|W|P|112391304784308169|W|P|confessions|W|P|aaaaayeth@gmail.com